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Belly Up |
October 2007 Issue 01YOUR MONTHLY NEWSLETTER BY
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Belly
Up covers current topics related to pregnancy, birth and parenting,
exploring some of the more controversial issues. |
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| Welcome to Belly Up! |
| Cover Story
Tell me what to do!
What is the difference between teaching decision making and giving advice? |
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| Featured Articles
Great web design
Is your web page
weighed down with butterflies, babies
and cherubic angels? Just how much is it
working hard for you?
Make sure that you
are getting the most from your website!
Culture Vulture
What happens in
other parts of the world? Broaden your
horizons and discover how others "do"
birth. |
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| Regulars
A Doula asks
What do you do when your family is not taking your work seriously?
The Bottom Line
What's new in research and news?
CBI News
What's happening at Childbirth
International?
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| Childbirth International
provides training programs for doulas & childbirth educators.
The leading provider of home based learning across the world,
Childbirth International provides you with this free newsletter
to keep you up to date and help you develop your skills and
knowledge. |
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A Doula asks
"I am training as a doula and childbirth educator. Before I started training I was a stay at home mom.
My problem is that my family all think this is just a hobby to me. They keep telling me that I start new projects all the time and this will be just like all the rest. None of them believe that I have any knowledge and never ask me questions about my work or my training. How do I get them to take me seriously?"
- Cathleen, Texas |
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Cathleen, Good for you for pursuing something you are passionate
about and believe in. I would ask you first of all why is it important
for your family to take you seriously? Examine why you need to have
their approval of what you are doing. Are you hoping they will all come
to you for advice, or is their approval important for another reason?
Next, and this can be a tough one, think about whether or
not you take yourself seriously. Other people tend to believe in us if
we believe in ourselves first. How do you view your doula and childbirth
educator work? Is it a career and business, or do you treat it as a
hobby? For most people, we treat a business as serious when it is
financially viable. Rightly or wrongly, when we are not making money
others tend to see it more as a hobby. While you are training, are you
charging for your services? If not, consider why you have chosen to
offer free services. What does it say about the value you place on your
service if you are not being paid for it. Is it costing you money? For
example, are you still having to pay for childcare, gas and parking but
not receiving any fee from clients? Could you change this and begin to
at least break even?
Finally, consider why it might be a problem to have a
hobby rather than a career. You can still be serious and passionate
about a hobby. Do you believe that a hobby is as serious as a career? If
not, why not?
At the end of the day, the most important thing is that
you believe in what you are doing and it is fulfilling you. once that is
in place, what other people think is not nearly as important!
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How does Childbirth International training address this?
Childbirth International
addresses this issue in the Birth Doula and Postpartum
Doula courses. We look at the stresses on a doula and
their family, together with exploring ways that you can
have a successful birthing business.
Understanding your own goals
and motivations, as well as areas that you can
build on, is important to a successful business.
This is covered in all Childbirth International
certification programs. For more information on
training with Childbirth International, take a
look at our
website,
or
contact us.
Childbirth International
offers training programs for Birth Doulas,
Postpartum Doulas and
Childbirth Educators. From September 2008 we will
also be launching a Breastfeeding Counseling
course.
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